Become the Man Women Desire.
Have the Confidence, Skill, and Magnetic Presence to Attract Your Dream Woman in 4 Months - Or We Coach You Until You Do.

Become the Man Women Desire - and Men Respect.
Attract Your Dream Woman in 4 Months - Or We Coach You Until You Do.

You’re respected at work, admired by peers… but when the night ends, you go home alone.
‍EROS gives you the confidence, clarity, and presence to change that - fast.
‍Become the kind of man who walks into any room and women feel it.

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Used by 200+ men to master their dating life.

Real Results from High-Achieving Men Who Were Where You Are Right Now

They had the career, the lifestyle, the success — but they struggled with dating…
Now they have the confidence, clarity, and connection to attract the women they actually want.

Saul Gonzalez
Before: TOO SHY
After: Winning His Dream Girl
Juan
Before: Shy Beta Male
After: Dating Multiple Women
Raj
Before: Virgin and Rejected
After: Girls Chasing
Reid
Before: Shy and Rube
After: Confident and Attracting Women
Martin
Before: Lonely and No Girls
After: Being Chased by Girls
Seth
Before: Rejected & Dumped
After: Attracting Quality Girls
Danny
Before: Struggling with Women
After: Turning Life Around in 3 Weeks
Jaron
Before: Toxic Ex-Girlfriend
After: Attracting a 10
Darrell
Before: Divorce & Feeling Hopeless
After: Dating Quality
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You’ve Built a Great Life - But You Still Can’t Attract the Woman You Want

You’re respected by your peers… but invisible to women.  

You’ve built a successful life — the job, the car, the apartment - but you’re still hesitating when it matters most.  
You freeze when it’s time to approach.  
You overthink your texts.  
You get ghosted, ignored, or end up chasing women you’re not even that into.
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And the worst part?  You’ve seen less capable men winning with the kind of women you actually want.

It doesn’t feel fair. And it’s not.

That’s exactly why EROS was built.

It’s a 4-month 1:1 coaching program designed for high-achieving men who are tired of guessing — and ready to finally master dating like they’ve mastered everything else.

We work with you personally to:
✅ Eliminate fear of rejection  
✅ Build real-world confidence  
✅ Attract women without games or tricks  
✅ Become the kind of man women chase - and men respect

And if you don’t get the results?  We coach you until you do. No fluff. No shortcuts. Just results.

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Men Just Like You Are Getting Results Every Single Week

Lawyers, engineers, athletes, and high-performers from around the world have used EROS to transform their dating life - and their confidence.

Want to be the next success story?
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Meet Selna Kim - The Coach Men Turn To When Success Still Doesn’t Get the Girl

Connor McCanless / Selna Kim is a dating and confidence coach for high-achieving men who have built incredible careers - but still struggle with women.

He’s worked with 100+ clients ranging from doctors, lawyers, athletes, engineers, and entrepreneurs.

After years of his own frustration, rejection, and self-doubt, Selna cracked the code to approaching women fearlessly, building magnetic presence, and becoming the kind of man women naturally want to be with.

His 4-month EROS coaching program is built to help men like you develop unshakable confidence, attract high-quality women, and finally take control of your love life.

✅ Helped 200+ men master their dating lives — from CEOs to engineers
✅ Specialized in coaching professionals: lawyers, doctors, athletes, and tech leaders
✅ Real results without pickup lines, gimmicks, or chasing
✅ Personalized 1:1 coaching with a clear path from hesitation to confidence
✅ Focused on authentic attraction — become the man women are naturally drawn to
✅ If you don’t get results in 4 months, we coach you until you do

Want me to personally guide you through this transformation?
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What You’ll Get Inside the EROS Coaching Program

This isn’t just information - it’s personal transformation.
Every part of EROS is built to help you become the man who doesn’t chase… he chooses.

🔹 1. Weekly 1:1 Coaching Calls

Tailored feedback, mindset rewiring, and strategy built around your specific goals

🔹 2. Real-Time Support (Text / Voice Access)

Get direct access to me between sessions - no more guessing, no more stalling

🔹 3. Personalized Dating Strategy

Know exactly how to approach, attract, and keep the kind of women you actually want

🔹 4. Confidence & Masculinity Training

Body language, energy, eye contact, tone - develop magnetic presence that women feel

🔹 5. Social & Dating Breakdown Analysis

I’ll review your convos, text threads, and in-person situations - and fix what’s not working

🔹 6. 3 Years Access to the EROS Curriculum

Get the frameworks, tools, and mental rewires you can return to anytime

Ready to get everything you need to finally win in dating?
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Watch These Free Trainings - And Start Becoming the Man She Wants

These quick lessons have helped thousands of men stop getting ghosted, build confidence, and attract the kind of women they actually want.

Like What You’re Learning? Let’s Take It Further
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What’s the Investment to Transform Your Dating Life?

This isn’t just coaching. It’s the final solution to the one area of your life you still haven’t mastered - dating.
I only work with men who are committed, coachable, and ready to lead.
If that’s you, here’s how it works:

$4,000 USD

✅ Covers 4 months of 1:1 coaching
✅ Includes full access to the EROS system
✅ Unlimited chat support, call reviews, and messaging feedback
✅ Lifetime access to video trainings and resources

Payment Options:

✅ Pay in Full
✅ Split into 2 Payments
✅ Flexible Plans Available Upon Request (Case-by-case)

Think about what you’ve spent on dates that went nowhere.
Think about what it’s cost you to stay stuck in fear, indecision, or loneliness.
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Now think about having the confidence and clarity to walk into any room and attract the woman you actually want.

‍That’s what $4K gets you - for life.

Ready to Become the Man Women Desire - and Men Respect?
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Still Have Questions? Let’s Clear Them Up

These are the most common questions from men who joined the EROS program - right before they changed their lives.

Is this just another dating program with basic advice?

Nope. EROS is a personalized, high-level coaching experience.
You get real 1:1 coaching from Selna, ongoing support, deep mindset work, and a clear system to help you attract high-quality women without playing games or being someone you’re not.

Do I need to already be confident to do this?

Not at all. That’s what the program is for.
You just need to be coachable and committed. Confidence is a skill — not a personality trait — and we’ll build it together.

I’m successful in business, but dating feels totally different. Will this actually work for me?

Yes - and you’re exactly who it’s built for.
Most of our clients are professionals who’ve crushed it in life… but still feel stuck or unsure when it comes to women. That ends here.

Is this going to feel cringe, like pickup stuff?

Not even close.
There are no tricks, pickup lines, or weird tactics.
Just real, grounded coaching to help you become the man women are naturally drawn to — confidently, authentically, and with presence.

What if I don’t get results?

We coach you until you do.
That’s not a marketing line. It’s a promise.
If you show up and do the work, Selna will stay in the trenches with you until you win.

What if I don’t have time?

Most of our clients work full-time careers. You’ll get a custom plan that fits your schedule — and helps you move fast without burnout.

Still not sure? Let’s talk about it.
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